how to manipulate and read people

how to manipulate and read people


reading people is the stuff that you thought
your psychology class would teach you, the ability to read,influence or persuade people
at will, instead you found out that in class there were no real strong people reading techniques. Let’s be honest, world governments don’t
want to train their population to be more observant or cunning. reading people it is the weapon of choice
of the powerful and the elite you wont be able to easily lie to or manipulate a
person who is good at reading people. they can easily see through everyone’s intentions.
being able to read a person is a must if you want to gain any significant power.as making
a deal with the wrong person will significantly reduce your power reading a person isn’t as simple as looking
at eye contact or body posture it runs much deeper than that if you want to be able to read, persuade
or even manipulate people successfully, you must nurture these 6 skillets the first skill set is to Master Subtextual
Communication Your mind’s perception for the unseen must
be sharp. You must understand people’s words and actions
on multiple levels: Communication is multi-layered; you should
always understand what is being said, what is truly meant and what may possibly be implied. to practice this, try and analyse the people
around you. this can be your friends family or whoever. you are just going to observe
them, take notice of their words and much closer to their actions try to figure out
what their values are and what drives them. then predict their future moves. just like a poker player  studies his opponents
every move every bluff he get a sense of how that player thinks to a point where he can
accurately predict his opponents next move. write down your targets and specify what they
value for example a very kindhearted person may value honesty and integrity. and despise
manipulators. a loud extroverted person may value an introverted person who listens to
him and despise other extroverts who talk over him.
” When you understand what makes people tick,
you can manipulate them, when you understand what makes you tick, you know how you can
be manipulated. The average person is largely unaware of
the underlying dynamics present in their environment, which is why the power-hungry king appreciates
the sleeping pawn. Heightened powers of observation are deemed threatening despite being inherently
passive in nature. You may not wish to threaten another’s interests, but if the other is
aware of your strong observational power they will find it hard to trust you, fearful in
the paranoia that your skill could somehow expose them.
 This is one of many reasons the ability to appear unintelligent is useful and necessary,
for it serves as the most effective form of concealment. the second skill is to think more logically instead
of emotionally people who are good at reading people possess
a high degree of self control and do not easily become emotional. they are open minded
to facts logic and reasoning but close minded to opinions . therefore they are not easily
manipulated by charm. their reasoning comes from analyzing data and facts. to practice this whenever you feel angry or
irritated at someone instead of lashing out calm yourself down and do not act impulsively.
this might be hard to do at first but with practice you can master your emotions. 
Emotional reasoning leads to incorrect deductions, poor judgement and a loss of self-control 3rd skill set you must develop wit
people test each other through tests and psychological ambushes.For example a girl can test your
confidence and insecurities by making a remark about your body or giving you questions that
put you in a bad light. politicians or celebrities frequently gets tested by interviewers to
put them in a bad light. if your wit isn’t developed these quick deadly attacks can make
you look bad and lower your social value however if you are skilled and fast in this art.the
attack can  be deflected or actually be counter attacked to boost
your social value. i’ve made a separate video explaining how
to pass these tests in detail to practice this you can get into lighthearted
banter with your friends or you can get into more debates with people
 experience is key the 4th skillset Emotional Intelligence Empathy is very important to develop emotional
intelligence you must be able to put yourself in the other persons shoes you must be able
to feel what they feel think like they think to be able to fully become that person in
a split second and embrace all their views.people with low empathy cannot do this as they can
only think from their own viewpoint. when you are able to do this you have immense power
because you know exactly how the people who stand in your way think. to quote orson scott card
In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, , then in that very moment I also love him.it’s
impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and not
love them the way they love themselves. And then, in that very moment when I love them….
I destroy them.” the 5th skill set is Cold Reading
You must develop the ability to cold read. you can practice this ability by gathering
data on a person and then making a theory as to what you have rationalized. you can
then find out by the person if what you have rationalized is true or not. its okay to make
mistakes you learn by making mistakes. it is important to first gather enough data before
you make a theory, because when you first make a theory without enough data your deduction
will be unreliable for example when you see a person wearing a sports jersey you can rationalized that
this person must like sports. instead the person could just like the jersey or someone
got it for him as a present. therefore you must first gather enough data to make sure
you make an accurate deduction. Having the ability to make accurate generalizations
about a person without even psychologically probing them gives you a massive advantage
over those untrained in the reading of non-verbal cues.  A good book to learn cold reading
is “What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People.” the last skillset Superficial Charm
reading people requires constant in-field analysis and calibration. Every interaction
you have should have meaning to it. In your conversations you should be summing people up
and collecting information on them so that you may better understand their nature. If
you can do this you can calibrate your demeanor to their tastes and successfully socialize
with a diverse range of characters. Charm is necessary for comfort and comfort
is necessary for trust. Without trust, your options are limited. to practice this when
you are meeting someone mirror their behaviors. remember the fastest way to get trust from
someone is to mirror them people tend to love themselves and their beliefs and when
you are a reflection of them they will love you for it and become comfortable and open
up. you should always be adjusting your behavior
to the new group your in. then when you have established yourself in
the group you can then direct and influence the group as you please.

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    red pill psychology

    the clips are from "the Mentalist", for a deeper understanding in machiavellianism i recommend reading the 48 laws of power,The 50th Law, 33 strategies of war,the art of war and the prince by Niccolò Machiavelli, i have added the links in the description

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    Daniela Gonzalez

    Its apparent you take strong influence from Robert Greene, however I am curious to what movies you used in your video. You didnt cite any sources :/

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    TEE BLAST

    The only reason why i know some of this is because the rules of war. Yikes i sound like a sociopath.

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    Threelly AI

    Yikes https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/threelly-ai-for-youtube/dfohlnjmjiipcppekkbhbabjbnikkibo

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    Threelly AI

    Eating a peanut butter and onion sandwich to calm the mind whilst watching this.
    https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/threelly-ai-for-youtube/dfohlnjmjiipcppekkbhbabjbnikkibo

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    Ethan Crowley

    Trump is ducking genius! Honestly, I don’t see any other self made billionaire celebrities becoming president of the United States. So, STFU if you dislike him. That’s not even the subject of my comment. Learn how to argue, because I’m not so sure you understand how.

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    Frederik van Breugel

    maybe good to add this video, because many people are destroyed by manipulation:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iZPNdJhFing

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    Seras Victoria

    Why do lots of people think that manipulation is an inherently evil thing?. I think you can use manipulation to better your situations without being a bad person. As long as others don't know that you're doing it, it should be alright.

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    Brandon Mccurry

    shit i saw this vid a year too late, fiance still gets creeped out when call out any bs 80% of the time , but know bs 100% of the time

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    James Kempton

    "People test each other through tests" 😂 thanks for that bit, I was wondering how they did that

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    Joni Jouttunpää

    What should someone do in life with this kinda skill set? I have most of these qualities and Ive fine tuned them for my own environment Im in. What Im asking is what would be the best course of action to get full benefit of these skills in business world?

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    Reasey Pich

    I will need this while playing mystery/games where you need to find the witness and we need to persuade people to think another person is the witness

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    INTJ Mind

    I like to manipulate people by occasionally calling them by the wrong name to remind them they mean nothing to me.

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    Kianistani

    Who was that dude he quoted, something about loving your enemy at the point of completely understanding them? It was something Scott, but i could not make out the first name.

    Around 8:00?

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    CheezyPr0ductionz

    I was watching this video then I went to wipe my ass the the paper towel ripped and I scratched my asshole with my finger

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    Rosolino Lo Sciuto

    Il sistema manipola su' tutto dalla ghiandola pineale alla materia astrale al corpo fisico anche i sogni sono un fattore artificiale

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    AndO-Productions

    Manipulating people is wrong. I try to read people to see whats bothering them to try make them at ease.
    Friends I read to help them to become better and stronger, mentally and physically

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    Salad Kid

    I’m just researching on manipulation just so I can play a manipulative character in a roleplay correctly, idk but y’all are wildin in these comments

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    JoJoZep ofthejungle

    Being the youngest in a toxic family and dating narcissists sure does wake up a person, nothing is hidden from me, I analyse a person in 5minits.

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    Mr Humble

    My Indian friend the simple way to read a person is by being humble, I wanted to know how Ashley and Carlitos think so I’ve became Ashley and Carlitos, felt what they were all about and got out cz if I stay too long I would become judgmental and once I become judgmental I loose it all, sometimes I feel like invading ppl’s privacy but it is fun to know about my amazing bros/sis.. funny like d great hater would think of me as a mad man looser but haters are real niggas and when real recognize real sometimes attracts or most of the times rejects cz of d envy lol, sad when this shit happens with hood niggas cz that’s a beef and then someone gets shot, ima hood nigga… why everyone wants to be the one. If you are happy being not the one then you are the one, america is getting mentally weaker, the gravitational force may be disappearing tho

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    GIUSEPPE TARTINI

    Dude get a fucking pop filter for your microphone your videos are terrible because all you hear smacking

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    Ghulam Ali

    this video is super awesome . feeling like superman . and most appealing such an interesting channel and just 251,000 subscriber . I guess people like to remain dumb as always . Sorry for all dumb people . hheheehe

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    Niro 666

    I'm just waching this video in case my classmates are applying it to me, sometimes i feel emotionally manipulated. Just in case 🙂

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    88とかげ

    this tips wont work for me since i tend to be always open and vulnerable to people, i don't want to try to read or and manipulating them since i think it's rude, and well, that's the reason why i'm always the victim of cunning people

    i just straight up believed blindly, "they are not gonna do or think bad things about me if i treat them nice" hhhh

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    Vince Marquez

    "Write down your targets and specify what they value……." (So you can use that information against them later)

    Yeah, nothing sociopathic about that

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    FIRE SPITTER

    The thing is reading people very well isn’t something that can easily be learned but through something like traumatic experience.

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