People Read Strangers’ Biggest Insecurities

People Read Strangers’ Biggest Insecurities


What is something that you wish you could change about yourself? My smile. My eyes. My acne. My face. The way I see myself. If there is anything I wish I could change about myself, it would be my social anxiety. I have lost so many friends and so many opportunities of making friends, due to the fact that I have always been too afraid to speak. I wish I could find a way to get the words out. I wish I could change how I see my body I know I’m not overweight but since gaining back 40 pounds from anorexia. I can’t help but feel disgusting. I wish I could change my sexuality so my dad would accept me again. I’m never happy with who I am unless I prove it to myself. I’d like to be okay with who I am even when I’m not doing anything. I’m extremely sexual but as a girl, it makes me feel like a whore. Hate that girls feel that way. Like if they have a sexual side to them that they have to hide it and suppress it, but it’s okay for a man to sleep with multiple women because that makes him a stud. But for a female, if she expresses any sexual desires and all of the sudden, “Yeah, she is a whore” but she’s not. It’s just normal human nature. I often see myself as an alien compared to other girls my age. I feel like no one else struggles and everyone lives a perfect life. I wish other people would open up more. What is something that you wish you could change about yourself? It says “my smile, my eyes, my acne, my face, the way I see myself” That’s a lot of stuff. There’s a smile that you make for photographs like a fake smile like You know and then there’s like the real smile that comes from real joy and real accomplishment and real interpersonal relationships with people That is like impossible to capture in a selfie. You know, that’s like your real smile, like look for your real smile Look for- look for like the real light behind your eyes and learn to look at that person, learn to love that person You know get that stuff that you can buy online that you put on your face for your acne. It works. I guess that’s what they say on the commercials. Sometimes I wish I could change my ethnicity. I feel like no matter how far I get, it’ll always be easier to be white. It’s gonna be hard for you no matter what complexion you are, but I get this. When I was younger, I- I can definitely side with that. But as I’ve grown up and I’ve started to love myself, and value all the things that I bring to the table as well as my nationality or background or ethnicity has to offer. I am so proud to be who I am.

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    Jubilee

    Did you resonate with any of these secrets? Empathize with any of them? If you're comfortable sharing, let us know either here or over on our Instagram! ( https://www.instagram.com/jubileemedia/ )

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    Ehriykkah

    most people would say physical things as their biggest insecurities, and as much as i dislike a lot of the way i look, i think my biggest insecurity is definitely personality and social anxiety

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    Nuru sen

    Yikes, I have social anxiety too and only work for my family's business cause I can't talk to others. ;;

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    Amxnda

    my insecurity is having social anxiety, why? because i miss fun things i could of done, i moved six months (2019) ago i moved but before i moved i cried begging my parents that i don't want to move and saying making friend is hard but we still moved. After i moved i went to my new school i didn't make friends until May 2019 but there was only one month left of school, even on my first field trip in my new school i've made a mistake on trying to sit by these girls on the bus, the we were weirded out after i got home that day i wanted to die, i burst out crying in my room. So that's i want my social anxiety gone

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    Tayyaba Laraib

    I have always been so insecure about my looks and my weight and how socially awkward I was. Most of it I think came from people casually making remarks about these things. And this is the thing I guess. If a single person would say something nice about me, it would literally make my day. Maybe we should take out time saying good stuff and praising one another. We're often very stingy when it comes to that. Now I've found someone who's pointing all positive things about me. Compliments how I look good, how my shyness is endearing and how I shouldn't worry about my weight. It is so uplifting and I'm grateful to him for making me like myself.

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    Katie M

    My biggest insecurity is my rosacea because it makes me feel like everywhere I go I’m a walking target

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    Ballad Soul

    everytime ppl ask about my appearance usually my fckn hair, i know they just being curious or just want to jk about it, but that stuff makes me so mad and make me feel so bad about myself and my look,i keep thinkin what others said about me i keep thinkin about it ,i actually never look my own reflection on the mirror, whenever i look at the mirror and take a closer look feels like i wanna cry :"

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    Me

    I relate to the social anxiety one and that other people live their best lifes. I mean, they do, they go out, have great friends.. I know everyone says „No, they don’t, they just show the best parts of their life and not the bad ones!“.. but, if you have so many good parts, you DO almost have a perfect life. Don‘t tell me otherwise.

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    Hannah F

    It just makes me so sad that people are insecure about their smile. Something that represents happiness.

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    Alyssa Hoeltke

    in every one of these videos i absolutely love the insight from the guy in the blue shirt, he’s amazing

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    Lou Martinez

    The ethincity one hit too close to home. In my entire life, being brown and being a female has lost me too many opportunities. It really is easier being white

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    Martyna Rogalewicz

    I hate my big pores on my nose and "brushy" eyebrowns. I'm afraid that, when someone is near me, he sees only this😔😔😔

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    Kemi Trash

    For me its mostly I tell everyone how amazing and beautiful about theirselfs and give so much love and care, but i always keep hurting myself purging up all of my food, cutting my arms and hiding them, not eating at all most of my days just because I hate myself for who I am and always looking at the pills or the rope to end it all but I cant because I will make people hurt because i just want them happy…

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    Neïsha laibhen

    The one thing I want change about myself is my skin color when I was in my homeland I've always love my skin color but since I moved to america I started hated my skin cause people always make fun of it even though my family love it I have a twin she look different from me and people always compared us and I hated she's pretty and she got light skin I'm kind of jalous of her but idk how to loved my self no more mom said it doesn't matter what people say but I can't bring to love myself

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    Delaney Dalheim

    My biggest insecurity about myself?

    I wish I could change everything about myself. It's hard to admit but yah I really fuckin' hate myself and I'm such a joyful happy type yet….. No matter how happy I am no matter what people say about me I know I'll never truly love myself.

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    Silver _fox

    I wish I could change my sexuality. I'm pan and mainly like girls but at times I do hate it. I wish I could make myself straight.
    I wish I could not be a little. Not in a sexual way. Age regression that's what I do. Those are what I would want to change

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    R T

    “ am never happy with who is, unless I prove it to myself. I would like to be happy with who I am even if Iam not doing anything.”

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    shiniku art

    I wish i would be able to enjoy myself instead of worrying about what people think of me and caring about how i look all the freaking time. Im tired of looking at that face in the mirror. Im tired of thinking im useless unless im doing something productive. I want to be able to spend time with myself in peace without worrying if im good enough or that im useless. I want to rest.

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    UnPuntoEnElUniverso •

    ive got my secret i dont share it. Im just to insecure to do so, but i really dont feel worthy i mean i sometimes understand why i cant find someone who loves me y feel empty. Everybody tells me i should love myself but thats not enough. I feel im not good enough for anybody. Im not seeking for attention y really just needeed to spill it somewhere

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    EHAEAHEAHEH Y TU Y TU

    My biggest insecurity is my weight… it always hurts me so bad if someone says I'm 16 while I'm 13. I always attract older men in the age of 27 and 40 while I just want to be a teenager living my life and not being disgustingly looked on

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    Lilia Leman

    I wish I could change my body I hate so much. I hate my ribs because they a like a square and not round. They stick out and I feel weird in swimsuits.
    I hate my arms and legs. Because the have gross bumps on them and they look like sticks. So any picture I am in I look so wierd.
    I also hate my stomach. I suck in anytime I am in a public place Because I feel insecure about it.

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    Miaplayz

    every time i walk outside the house i think “what if i die when i walk outside” everyday when i wake up i always think it will be my last day on earth

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    Dobrija Šakić

    I think that social media plays a big part in our insecurities. We see all of this happy people living perfect lives. But in reality that's not the case.

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    Sodium Sushi

    My biggest insecurity is about when people find out where I'm from, from all the news people immediately judge me, and I wish to have a chance to show them that we're not all like what the news says we are.
    i have many more but that's my main one :/

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    Zionna

    My biggest insecurity is my body all these girls at my middle school have these big butts and the guys pay attention to them.I don’t want a boyfriend but I guess when you have the attention it makes u feel good about yourself and when you don’t you don’t feel good.btw i just started this school 4 days Ago and I’m 11

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    Gaming Grape

    The reason a woman is seen as a whore if she sleeps with multiple men is because women are things of beauty that need to be kept beautiful like a jewel, if that jewel get thrown on the ground and cracks and loses peices of itself it becomes less valuable (this is all my opinion)

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    love yourself

    I've always told myself and others:
    If you can change one thing change how you think about people so that no matter how you look or feel you still love yourself and others.

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    AKIDWITA KOOHAT

    I wish I could change the way I think. I wish I could change my suicidal thoughts and how much I hate myself.

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    H H

    0:36 could relate. I've been a quiet person ever since i was young but it just got worser as i get older now i'm a freshman. I'm joining clubs hoping to make friends there

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    Crystal xoxox

    I HATE my smile when I take photos of myself because you can tell it’s a forced smile
    I captured a real smile one day when I started laughing with a friend and I love it so much more.
    Your real genuine smile isn’t often captured, but most people will see that instead of your forced camera smile 😊

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    RHN

    I'm a pretty skinny, lanky 16 y/o (6ft 1ish) dude with a hook nose so I get called "Jew" a lot but it's kinda funny if I'm honest

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    Astro_ Luna

    I overthink a lot. Over everything and anything, I hate it. I get insecure over my own thoughts and I act like it doesn’t effect me but it really does.

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    Alexandra Villanueva

    I really hate my nose. I can't post selfies without having to think of it for hours straight then just ends up deleting it. Wish I could change my mindset.

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    Why Tho

    My biggest insecurities are

    All my scars
    My ethnicity (I’m not American and I really hate being white)
    And just my personality in general (I’ve been bullied for being the really quiet girl, for being studious and for just being a little different than everyone else)

    Among other things

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    Unknown 1234

    I hope i can just rely on people, i can just say what's bothering me, why i am sad. I hope i can believe that i am not annoying, no one is getting annoyed by me.

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    Sara Ferguson

    Ok but that guy that responded to the person who listed so many things they wishedt hey could change themselves – I have watched you read & react to stranger's confessions on 2 vids so far now, & you are seriously so sweet, understanding, mature, have great advice, are super cute, anddd u can get it lol!!! 😂😂😍

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    phantomvampyress shadowkissed

    I feel for this people i truly empathize with them. I know my daughter wishes she can change the fact she has eczema. It really flares up on her arms and hands . I feel bad for her with that.

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    phantomvampyress shadowkissed

    For myself . It's my voice it's so nasal. Ive been made fun of for it since 12. Ive been called the nanny so many times. I will not let my voice be recorded

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